I saw this well reading Reader's Digest in school today:

能与伴侣白头偕老只有一个可能，就是一同在意外中离世，但这样的可能性很低，子女也会很伤心，所以只是一个梦想。伴侣先离开比较好，因为伤心是由我来承受的，而不是她。

Meaningful indeed, I think.

I believe that there is something known as 'one and only'.

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Trying to decipher something. I know I'm still very far away from it, but I'm getting closer, I think.